My cats aren’t getting along

Cats having conflict with each other can be a stressful experience for both you and the cats. There can be many reasons for relationship problems between cats, but also many ways you can help everyone feel at peace at home.

Staying Safe Around Aggressive Cat Behaviour

If you notice signs your cats are about to fight or if your cats are fighting:

  • Do not put your hands between them to break it up.
  • Try distracting your cat by calling their name or using toys or treats to redirect their attention.
  • If your cats can’t be distracted, use an emergency barrier like a blanket or large piece of cardboard to split them up and move them to separate spaces.

If you have questions about your cat biting or scratching you, check out our Human-Directed Aggression in Cats resource.

Tips for Improving Relationships Between Your Cats

There are many reasons why cats may hiss, swat, chase, or fight other cats at home. Sometimes the cause of their aggression may start as something else, like pain or agitation unrelated to your other cat, but it can harm their relationship, leading to fear and stress that sticks around even when the original cause is gone. It’s important to act early if you notice signs of tension to prevent damage to their relationship.

To learn about different types of aggression and why your cat may be behaving a certain way, read our Aggressive Behaviour in Cats Guide.

Learn more about why conflict between cats may occur by reading our Intercat Tension Guide.

For a step-by-step guide on how to introduce new cats, or reintroduce cats who have been separated, read our Cat to Cat Introductions resource.

A common source of tension between cats is not having enough space of their own or feeling like they’re competing for resources like food and resting spots. Making changes to the environment can help your cats feel safer and reduce the amount of tension or fighting.

  • Each cat should have their own resting space, litterbox, scratching posts, and food and water bowls that are far from others. This will help reduce tension that comes from sharing resources.
    • The minimum number of litterboxes you should have at home is the number of cats plus one. So, if you have two cats, you should have at least three litterboxes in different locations.
  • Give your cats vertical space, like cat trees or shelves, and multiple places to rest in every room where the cats spend time.
  • Prevent your cats from getting ambushed or cornered by giving them multiple escape routes away from areas where conflict happens. Hallways, doorways, food bowls, and litterboxes are common areas to see tension between cats. Use furniture, cat trees, or shelves to create new pathways for your cats to get off the ground and move around your house without feeling trapped.
    • If your cats ambush each other at the litterbox, add another litterbox in a different room of your house and separate any litterboxes that are side-by-side. Consider placing non-covered boxes in open areas, but beside a chair, shelf, or cat tree so the cat can see who’s coming and escape upwards if needed.

Our Cat Enrichment Guide provides an in-depth look at what you can give cats to keep them healthy and happy.

For information on setting up your cat’s ideal litterbox, read our Litterbox Guide.

Did you know cats can learn cues, like “sit” and “come”? Teaching your cat “come”, to touch your hand, or to go to their bed can be very helpful to get your cat to willingly move away from a situation when you notice signs of tension brewing, like staring or waiting to ambush.

Read our Reward-Based Training Guide to learn more about how to train your cat.

Our clicker training resource is a helpful tool for this as well – although it’s specific to dogs, it can also apply to cats.

Below are some additional resources we recommend for learning more about cat training:

Introducing a new cat should be done slowly and patiently, with the least comfortable cat setting the pace. We recommend using positive reinforcement, reward-based training to help cats feel more confident. Introductions are more likely to go smoothly if you have plans in place to make it a positive and safe experience for everyone.

Check out our Cat Introductions Guide for step-by-step instructions to introduce cats to each other.

Even cats who have lived together for a while may develop tension or conflict in their relationship. This may be because of stress, a change in the home, illness, a scary event, or something else that impacted them. Separating your cats and slowly reintroducing them to each other can be a way to give them the space and time they need to repair their relationship.

For information about aggression between cats, read our Aggressive Behaviour in Cats and Intercat Tension Guide. We also recommend reading this article about intercat tension by Cat Friendly Homes.

Your cat might feel stressed after being put in a carrier, traveling, and doing something scary, like seeing the vet. If you have only one cat, give them some time to settle in before trying to pet them or play with them after getting home.

If you have multiple cats at home you may notice they have fights after one comes home from a vet appointment. This is because new, unfamiliar scents from the vet clinic or other animals have come home too, and this can make your cats feel anxious and they may have a hard time recognizing each other. You can help your cat feel safe and prevent fighting after vet visits by placing them in a quiet room away from other cats, scent swapping, and slowly reintroducing them to the other cats.

For tips on re-introducing cats after travel read our Traveling in a Car with Your Cat Guide and Cat to Cat Introductions.

Learn how to reduce stress when taking your cat to the vet in International Cat Care’s guide.

For more information about aggression between cats, explore our Aggressive Behaviour in Cats Guide and resource about intercat tension.

A sudden change in behaviour can be a sign of a health issue or pain. See here for how to recognize pain in cats.

A veterinarian can also provide recommendations for treatments if your cat is experiencing stress or anxiety that is causing their unacceptable elimination.

You can find a veterinary clinic in your area using the ABVMA Directory.

What Not to Do

Don’t punish your cats by doing things like yelling, swatting, or spraying them. This may cause them to bite or scratch you, and can also worsen aggression if they associate the other cat with being punished by you.

Don’t let them “work it out on their own”. Conflict between cats can cause physical injuries from biting and scratching, and also causes lasting stress that negatively affects their mental and physical health. Your cat’s emotional well-being will be negatively affected by fights, and repeated fighting will only make their fear, stress, and aggression worse.

Cat Behaviour Resources

Speak to a Behaviour Specialist

EHS has a free pet behaviour hotline where you can get the advice of an expert trainer by calling 780-491-3521 or emailing us.


Need More Options?

If these options haven’t worked for you, you can return to our HELP Tool to find more ideas tailored to different concerns.

Try HELP Tool Again

If you’re thinking of re-homing your pet, we recommend taking steps to find them a new home yourself before bringing them to a rescue or shelter. Pets often do better if they can go directly to a new family. For tips on how to responsibly rehome your pet, read our guide.

Read Our Guide to Self Rehoming Your Pet

We’re Here to Help

If you still have questions or want to talk about other options, please submit a support request below and a member of our team will get in touch with you.

Request Pet Support